what is the best way to speak English ?

I'm always thinking that I'm lucky bcoz I have all things what I need ... like happy family ...., yeah I know sometime I feel so irritating with some little problem bt maybe problems are part of life . n I thought problems make us our life interesting otherwise just think if every time u feel happy then u can't feel real happiness ... bcoz after a long sadness or problems we feel the real happiness .... so what u think , ? r u also lucky???